My Formals Date.
My escort to Alpha Psi Rho’s Spring Formal 2K12; my love, my best friend, and my boyfriend. I want to thank you for being there for me and spending time with me at my own formal. You truly put a big smile on my face every time I’m around you and I can’t help but love you more each day. You supported me and watched us dance even though I suck at dancing. You never judge any weird or crazy things I do. It was my night, therefore you made it even more wonderful. We danced along with the music, with our hands held tight. Even though everyone else grinded, we just playfully dance hitting every beat of the music with our body movements. You bring out the child in me because you are childish yet mature at times. You make me chase after you and you’d carry me in your arms like a princess. We’d lay on the carpet, staring at the ceiling with no care what anyone would say about us. We just do the things we’re comfortable with and enjoy ourselves. You saved me some delicious desserts when I didn’t have the chance to get some :3. You took the time to do these little things for me and I really appreciate you. I could never ask for a better date than you <3
New favorite song.
Every part of me wants to tell you how i feel
Every piece of me wants to show you that I’m real
I don`t wanna make the same mistakes that I made before
I really need to take this chance on us before you`re walking out that door
Cause I wanna be wherever you are baby
And I wanna be the shining star that leads you home to me
I don`t wanna jump the gun and say that this is love
But I can tell you now that you`re more than enough
Cause I wanna be wherever you are, wherever you are-Justin (fuckyeahslowjams)
John Legend ft. Ludacris | Tonight (Best You Ever Had)
hooked on this song..Tonight I’ll be… the best you ever had.
Payphone (Maroon 5 ft. Wiz Khalifa Cover) | Jason Chen
I’m at a payphone trying to call home,
All of my change I spent on you
Where have the times gone
Baby it’s all wrong, where are the plans we made for two?
If happy ever after did exist
I would still be holding you like this
All those fairytales are full of sh*t
One more stupid love song I’ll be sick
You turned your back on tomorrow
Cause you forgot yesterday
I gave you my love to borrow
But just gave it away
You can’t expect me to be fine
I don’t expect you to care
I know I’ve said it before
But all of our bridges burned down
I’ve wasted my nights
You turned out the lights
Now I’m paralysed
Still stuck in that time when we called it love
But even the sun sets in paradise.
(Source: jiandanderen)
Arguing In A relationship
- Embrace conflict. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow.
- Go after the issue, not each other. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings.
- Listen respectfully. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it.
- Talk softly. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise.
- Get curious, not defensive. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding.
- Find points of agreement. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution.
- Look for options. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new.
- Make concessions. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you.
- Make peace. Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.
